In South Carolina, when people separate or divorce, one spouse is typically awarded “exclusive use and possession” of the marital home. This is usually implemented at a temporary hearing soon after the parties separate, but it is subject to change at the final hearing. In either case, an Order is issued specifying who has possession… Continue Reading
Category Archives: Harassment
Subscribe to Harassment RSS FeedCyberbulling Is a Very Real Problem – How to Protect Your Kids
Posted in Children, Dispute Resolution, Domestic Abuse, Harassment, SafetyWith the integration of the internet and “social” networks into almost every area of our lives, it was only a matter of time until someone used these innovations for the wrong purposes. Cyberbulling has become more and more of an epidemic and some of the most vulnerable victims, in my own opinion, seem to be… Continue Reading
What to Do If Your Spouse Is Not Following the Custody Agreement
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Contempt of Court, Harassment, VisitationAlthough most judges consider it a priority to ensure that their court orders are enforced, parents need to realize that judges must be informed that there is a problem before they can take any action to remedy a problem. This comes up frequently in situations where parents don’t get along and they use a contentious… Continue Reading
Divorce Gets Nasty Online
Posted in Child Custody, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Divorce, Harassment, Relationships, Separation, TechnologyEmail, texting and social media can all be effective means of communication for couples going through divorce. They often work well because they can help minimize “in person encounters” which are more prone to create friction. However, the electronic avenues of communication can be used for bad, often at the children’s expense. In a small… Continue Reading
What Can You Learn From Celebrity Divorces?
Posted in Assets and Debts, Child Custody, Communication, Divorce, Financial Issues, Harassment, Prenuptial Agreements, SeparationMany celebrity marriages are over in the blink of an eye. What can average citizens learn from the divorce mistakes of the rich and famous? Plenty. Though we might not have their money or their number of exes, we can still learn lessons from their trials and tribulations. 1. Get a prenup :: When Mel Gibson… Continue Reading
How To Deal With Your New Love’s Ex
Posted in Communication, Dispute Resolution, Divorce, Harassment, Marriage, Psychological Issues, Relationships, SeparationIt’s really easy when meeting your new love’s former spouse to have thoughts immediately turn negative. And while it’s true that some are every bit as evil as you may want to believe, they aren’t always bad news. With that in mind, follow these simple rules to help manage an ex in your life. 1…. Continue Reading
Six Steps to Consider If You Want to File for Divorce
Posted in Alimony, Assets and Debts, Attorney-Client Relationship, Child Custody, Child Support, Children, Communication, Divorce, Financial Issues, Harassment, Marriage, Separation, VisitationAccording to a recent article on the HuffingtonPost.com, the following steps should be taken if you see a divorce happening in the not so distant future. These important actions can protect yourself and your future. Go see a South Carolina family law attorney. Many people wait far too long before seeking legal advice about an… Continue Reading
Bitter Ex-Spouse Targets Local Politician
Posted in Divorce, HarassmentA local candidate for County Council finds himself the target of public accusations of breaking up another man’s marriage. The husband claims that the politician had an affair with his wife, and he has been driving a truck around town with a large placard that says "__ WHO IS RUNNING FOR COUNTY COUNCIL DIST. 1… Continue Reading
SC Family Lawyer Featured in Article About Parental Alienation
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Educational Resources, Harassment, Psychological Issues, VisitationLawyers Weekly USA recently published an excellent article on parental alienation syndrome (PAS). "Parental Alienation: The Latest Weapon in Nasty Divorces" takes an inside look at the various aspects of PAS from the perspectives of those involved in the legal system. The article features interviews with psychologist Richard Gardner and several divorce attorneys: Steve Pradell… Continue Reading
Ex-Husband Wins Defamation Case
Posted in Divorce, HarassmentThe Chicago Sun-Times reports that an investment banker will receive $9.7 million after his ex-wife destroyed his career and reputation with a damaging letter sent to 200 people, including potential employees, colleagues, charities and friends. The letters alleged that he boasted of bribing judges, made plans to have her killed, and duped his employers out… Continue Reading
Useful Resources Regarding Domestic Violence
Posted in Divorce, Harassment, Other Resources, SafetyThe American Bar Association‘s Commission on Domestic Violence has published two useful resources: For Clients: Domestic Violence Safety Plan: Safety Tips for You and Your Family. This downloadable document includes practical tips for protecting your children and yourself at home, at work, at Court, and elsewhere. For Attorneys: Tool for Attorneys to Screen for Domestic… Continue Reading
Is the VAWA the “Hate Men” Law?
Posted in Harassment, RelationshipsI came across an interesting analysis and discussion of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), Time to Defund Feminist Pork — the Hate-Men Law by Phyllis Schlafly. The VAWA debate has given rise to strong emotions on both sides of this issue, and Ms. Schlafly’s position can be summarized in her statement that it is… Continue Reading
Fathers vs “Sperm Donors”
Posted in Harassment, RelationshipsI never cease to be amazed by the terrible, hurtful things that people say to each other. For instance, I had a client several years ago whose ex-wife sent a card to him from his young children on Father’s Day that said Happy “Sperm Donor’s” Day. Needless to say, when we introduced that card as… Continue Reading
Domestic Violence Awareness Month
Posted in Harassment, Other ResourcesDomestic violence is “a great evil and an offense against human dignity,” said President Bush in a Proclamation declaring October to be National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Over the last decade, awareness of domestic violence has risen dramatically, and there are now many programs available to assist the victims and attempt to prevent future instances…. Continue Reading
Supreme Court Protects Police in Restraining Order Lawsuit
Posted in HarassmentThe U.S. Supreme Court held earlier this week that police cannot be sued for the manner in which they enforce restraining orders. In the 7-2 decision, the Court found that the wife did not have a constitutional right to police enforcement of an order against her estranged husband. The woman, a resident of Colorado, claimed… Continue Reading