Even Celebrities Can Benefit from Parenting Classes

Too often in child custody cases, children are asked the following questions or subjected to these comments:

  • "Who do you love more? 'Mommy' or 'Daddy?'"
  • "Was mom's boyfriend there?"
  • "Your father is always late on payments."
Children should never be put in the position of having to deal with "adult" issues.  Just because their parents can't get along, their childhood should not be ruined by such inappropriate conduct. 

Some judges require feuding parents to attend parenting classes to attempt to resolve (or sometimes prevent) such problems.  These classes vary widely in their format, but they generally aim to teach parents how to deal with each other while protecting their children and also to make parents realize how their actions can affect their children.

Even celebrities can benefit from these classes, as evidenced by the ugly child custody battle between Chicago Bear Brian Urlacher and his former lover.  Both parents in that case were ordered to attend a four-hour parenting class to help deal with the problems in their case.

Source:  "Urlacher Custody Judge: Take a Class" by Rummana Hussain, published at The Herald News.

Suggestions to Keep Mothers Happy

There is an old saying that I believe holds true -- "If' Momma's not happy, no one is happy."  Of course, that begs the question, how can mothers stay happy or at least happier?  Parenting.com recommends  the following steps for moms to be happier and more effective:

  • Admit when you're stressed
  • Get enough sleep
  • (Re)consider your priorities
  • Go with the flow
  • Savor the moment
  • Take the long view
  • Reconnect with your spouse
  • Say thanks
You can read the full article, which includes more about each of these suggestions by clicking HERE.
Source:  "How to be a Happier Mom: 8 Ways to Focus on the Positive" by Robert Barnett, published at CNN.com.  Thanks to David C. Sarnacki for his post on this topic at his Domestic Diversions blog.