The New York Times recently published an article on their parenting blog discussing the idea of “nesting” after a divorce and asked whether their readers thought it was a good idea. The topic provoked a heated response from many, with readers divided on the subject. It’s clear that the idea has received increased attention in recent… Continue Reading
Category Archives: Visitation
Subscribe to Visitation RSS FeedFive Ways to Use Technology to Help Bond with Your Children
Posted in Children, Communication, Relationships, Technology, VisitationHave you considered all of the many ways that you can use your smartphone, tablet, computer, or social media to promote closer bonding with your children? The following tips can help you do just that: Exploration :: The most magical thing about literature has always been its ability to provide a way for everyone to explore life,… Continue Reading
Items to Consider in Parenting Plans and Visitation Agreements
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Relationships, VisitationChildren typically aren’t the ones who ask their parents to divorce, but they are often the ones that are affected the most by divorce. They want (and deserve) the ability to love and spend time with both of their parents. Parenting plans (sometimes called visitation agreements) can help provide that opportunity and ensure that access… Continue Reading
Tips For How To Handle A Custody Evaluation
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Guardian ad Litem, Psychological Issues, Relationships, Research & Investigation, VisitationLast week we discussed what happens when a custody evaluation is ordered in a Family Court case. In contested cases where parents cannot agree about custody and/or visitation issues, judges may require that a psychologist sit down with everyone involved and determine what arrangement would serve the child’s best interest. The following tips can help… Continue Reading
List of Items to Consider for Parents Who Are Separating or Divorcing
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Divorce, Relationships, Separation, VisitationResponsible parents realize that nothing is more important than the well-being of their children, and they keep that in mind even when they separate or divorce. In a perfect world, parents would put aside their differences and squabbles and act civilly and responsibly around their children and towards one another. Unfortunately, all too many times that… Continue Reading
Handling Spring Break Visitation While Separated or Divorced
Posted in Children, Communication, Divorce, Separation, VisitationSpring break can be an especially hectic time for separated or divorced families. Even in the best situations, juggling children, schedules, and different vacation plans between two different households can be a challenge. Waiting till the last possible minute to put together plans makes an already challenging situation much worse. Taking a few steps ahead… Continue Reading
What the New Proposed Parenting Plan Means for Parents in Custody and Visitation Cases
Posted in Child Custody, Guardian ad Litem, Procedure, VisitationAs we have written before, the law in South Carolina changed in 2012 to introduce several new concepts into how child custody cases are handled in Family Court. One such new requirement is the new Proposed Parenting Plan, which is described in SC Code § 63-15-220 (A)-(C). At all temporary hearings where custody is contested, both parents must… Continue Reading
Parents Relocating With Kids After Divorce in South Carolina
Posted in Child Custody, Children, VisitationOne of the difficult moments after any divorce occurs when one parent decides, for whatever reason, that they need to relocate. When children are involved, moving to a new city or state is no easy task, especially if the other parent intends to stay behind. Even in the best cases, where exes communicate and co-parent… Continue Reading
Important Considerations for Parents in Child Custody Relocation Cases
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Guardian ad Litem, Procedure, VisitationOne of the most common questions I am faced with in both my litigation cases and my private Guardian ad Litem work is, “When is it okay for me to relocate and not endanger my custody arrangements or rights?” Relocation cases can be, and arguably should be, tricky. They can be tricky simply because the law leaves for a great… Continue Reading
Which Visitation Schedule Is Best for Your Family?
Posted in Guardian ad Litem, VisitationWhen couples are faced with dividing their children’s time between them, one of the inevitable first questions asked is, “What type of visitation plan do you recommend for your clients?” This is similar to asking someone how they take their coffee – the answers can be as varied as your imagination. While it is true that there once… Continue Reading
Helping With Homework… Even from a Distance
Posted in Children, Communication, Educational Resources, Relationships, Technology, VisitationIf you are even remotely attuned to the world of technology, you have probably heard a mention or two of cloud computing. It’s the latest and greatest new thing to be introduced into our technology lexicon and is quickly becoming a tool that is indispensable at work and at home. A recent article on WiseBread.com… Continue Reading
Visitation and Child Support in South Carolina
Posted in Child Support, Contempt of Court, Financial Issues, Procedure, VisitationIt’s a feeling experienced by many custodial parents in South Carolina: frustration at the failure of the non-custodial parent to pay child support in a timely manner. The payments might be sporadic or even nonexistent. Either way, it can cause real financial stress waiting on money from your former spouse. One typical response to such… Continue Reading
How to Effectively Co-Parent with Your Ex
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Relationships, VisitationAs our regular readers know, our law office is located in Spartanburg, SC. However, we maintain working relationships with family law attorneys all across the country. Occasionally, we will publish guest posts on our blog from some of them, such as the following from Texas family law attorney Scott Morgan: When you have children, divorce is… Continue Reading
Legitimation of Children in South Carolina
Posted in Child Custody, Child Support, Children, Paternity, VisitationHere in South Carolina, child custody and visitation disputes can become complicated if the children at issue were born out of wedlock. There are several different avenues for establishing parentage in the state. The most traditional option occurs if the parents of a child get married then the paternity of the father is established automatically. If… Continue Reading
What To Do If You’re Considering Remarriage in South Carolina
Posted in Alimony, Child Custody, Financial Issues, Marriage, Relationships, VisitationMany South Carolinians come out of a divorce and vow to never be married again. The process was emotionally and financially draining and often leaves people broken-hearted or generally exhausted. Though this feeling can last a while, many eventually grow out of their concerns and may decide to make another go of it. If that’s… Continue Reading
How to Ease Tension During the Holiday Season
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Divorce, Relationships, Separation, VisitationWith Thanksgiving just behind us and the rest of the holiday season soon to follow, this time of year can be very stressful for all families. For divorced and divorcing parents, the stress of the holidays can become overwhelming when combined with the new sensation of separate holiday celebrations. Thankfully there are ways to ease… Continue Reading
Required Reading Straight from the Bench for Parents in Child Custody Cases
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Educational Resources, Relationships, VisitationRecently a Canadian judge issued a novel Order to two parents involved in a contested custody battle for their 11-year old twins. He assigned the parents with the obligation to each read three books about parenting in a divorce situation before they return to the Court later this year. Not only are they required to… Continue Reading
South Carolina Law Requires Submission of Parenting Plans
Posted in Child Custody, Practice Tips, Procedure, VisitationOver the summer, South Carolina implemented a new child custody law: H 4614, which was signed by Governor Haley on June 18, 2012. While the new law does quite a few things, one of the biggest changes involves the creation of a new requirement for the submission of parenting plans. The goal of the law… Continue Reading
Custody Fight Revolves Around Whether Woman is the Mother or Merely a Surrogate
Posted in Child Custody, Child Support, Children, Communication, Medical Issues, Paternity, Relationships, VisitationAs many people realize, whether you are part of a traditional marriage, in a same-sex relationship, or a single person who has always wanted a child, there are now many more options than there used to be for raising children. One option that has been utilized by those who have had trouble conceiving is in… Continue Reading
Divorce from a Child’s Perspective
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Divorce, Guardian ad Litem, Relationships, Separation, VisitationWhen I meet with a parent who is contemplating divorce, the worry I hear most often as he or she talks through the details of a troubled marriage is, “How will this affect our children?” Admittedly, that isn’t an easy question to answer. Every child is different. Every family situation is different. If the parents… Continue Reading
What to Do If Your Spouse Is Not Following the Custody Agreement
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Contempt of Court, Harassment, VisitationAlthough most judges consider it a priority to ensure that their court orders are enforced, parents need to realize that judges must be informed that there is a problem before they can take any action to remedy a problem. This comes up frequently in situations where parents don’t get along and they use a contentious… Continue Reading
HBO Documentary Lets Kids Give Parents Advice About Divorce
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Dispute Resolution, Divorce, Educational Resources, Psychological Issues, Relationships, Separation, VisitationIt’s pretty easy for one adult to share advice with another on how to handle your divorce. But for many parents, the divorce process is so full of details concerns unique to their family that tips from well-meaning friends, family members and colleagues can easily go in one ear and out the other. A new… Continue Reading
Does Your Child Need Therapy After Your Divorce?
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Divorce, Educational Resources, Psychological Issues, Relationships, Separation, VisitationIf you’re going through a divorce or about to begin the process and have children, one of your top concerns will likely be the impact it will have on the kids. You may be worried about what signs to watch for and what behaviors signal that your child is experiencing problems that may require professional… Continue Reading
An Explanation of Child Custody Arrangements in South Carolina
Posted in Child Custody, Children, Communication, Relationships, VisitationDealing with issues of child custody are some of the most difficult decisions any couple must face in a South Carolina divorce. Dividing the marital property can seem relatively easy when compared to dividing up your time with your children. To help make the process easier, this post will discuss some of the options South… Continue Reading