It's often said that technology makes things easier for us. While this is usually a good thing, technology has also made it easier for spouses to engage in extramarital affairs. The constant access to cell phones, laptops, and a range of online match-making websites has made it incredibly easy for those who are interested in straying to actually do so.

Sadly, South Carolina family law attorneys have seen an increase in the number of cases dealing with virtual infidelity and witnessed how these cases of online cheating lead to the dissolution of marriages. While some online relationships can jump into the real world, there are many others that remain virtual, with individuals exchanging emails, chat messages, or video dates but never actually meeting in the flesh.

The question among some who have handled these cases is whether this “virtual infidelity” counts as a serious enough indiscretion to justify divorce. Experts generally agree that cyber relations do not qualify as adultery under most legal definitions. Typically, adultery is defined as intimate sexual activity outside of marriage with a specific person at a specific location. Though virtual infidelity is emotionally devastating and can destroy the trust that exists in many relationships, it typically does not meet the legal definition of adultery because there is no physical contact between parties.

However, even though virtual infidelity may not technically constitute adultery for purposes of obtaining a divorce, it can still serve as the basis to end a marriage. Virtual infidelity not only undermines your spouse's trust in you, but it can also serve as a slippery slope to other, real world acts of unfaithfulness. By opening the door to inappropriate contact with others online, it often becomes easier to engage in other inappropriate behaviors offline.

We have seen many cases over the years in which spouses being unfaithful online were also having “real world” adulterous relationships. Knowing what signs to look for and how to handle them if you see them is particularly important. If you suspect your spouse of being unfaithful, it's wise to consult with an experienced family law attorney sooner rather than later to discuss your rights and the options available to you.

Ben Stevens has provided exceptional legal counsel and support to families throughout South Carolina for over twenty-five years, handling all matters of family law, such as child custody, child support, and divorce. He has handled hundreds of cases involving adultery, and when necessary, he provides his clients with the necessary referrals and expert collaboration to support their cases. Our firm is well-equipped to handle all divorce and family law matters, no matter your circumstances. Contact us at (864) 598-9172 or SCFamilyLaw.com to schedule an initial consultation.